If a man wants you, nothing will keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for him and his behavior. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is always better. If a relationship ends because he was not treating you as you deserve, then no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Maintain boundaries. Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Never let him know everything. He could use it against you later. You can't change his behavior. Change comes from within. Don't ever make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let him define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to complete you...a relationship consists of two whole individuals. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when he always knows where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Lastly, don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything you deserve.
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